She Almost Lost Her Mom to Something Nobody Takes Seriously
Last summer I got a phone call no daughter is ready for.
My mother had collapsed in a grocery store parking lot. She's 67, still mows her own lawn, and lives alone about four hours from me. By the time anyone called me she was already in the ER hooked up to an IV.
I wasn't even there.
I sat in my kitchen 400 miles away while a nurse told me over the phone that my mother was getting fluids pumped into her arm because her body had run so low on minerals that her muscles locked up and her brain started shutting down.
The diagnosis was severe dehydration.
Not from some rare disease. Not because anyone neglected her. Just from slowly, day after day, not putting back what her body was losing.
The bill came two weeks later. Over $3,400. Three hours in the ER and a bag of salt water through an IV. That's what electrolytes cost when you get them in a hospital instead of at home.
And the doctor's advice when he sent her home? I will never forget these six words:
"Just make sure she drinks more water."
That was the whole plan. No follow-up. No home visit. No real advice for how a 67-year-old woman living alone was supposed to suddenly start doing the thing she'd already been failing at for two years.
Just "drink more water" and a $3,400 bill.